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Dear Taya...
Phobia of water and swimming
23 Jan 2010, 14:20
Dear Taya,
I have recently done your weight loss program with great success and my husband Cliff did your quit smoking therapy last year an is still of the smokes! We were wondering if you could help our daughter India. She is 12 months old and has a huge fear of water and swimming. The swim school said her reaction was normal and would wear off after a month at the most, but since starting lessons 6 weeks ago it has actually gotten worse and I can’t even get her in the water. We stopped lessons as it was just too hard for me, but now I’m noticing its happening at friends places and in other instances too. Can you help?- oceanablue57.
Taya replied: Dear oceanablue57, What is she like in the bath? After muscle testing this is something that seems to have originated from birth and her very first bath at the hospital?? I have removed the stress from this incident and noticed that her safest feeling place in water is on her side - not something they would practice at the swim schools. I have released on: “I feel vulnerable” like being placed on her back in water for the first time left her “open” in a negative way. I also feel she spent a lot of time in the womb laying on her side or floating on her tummy, so sleeping in her cot on her back took some serious adjusting to as a new born. The whole water experience from that moment on, has just compounded over and over again, and is now at the point where water in any situation, particularly swimming, brings out these feelings of vulnerability and she fights for a level of comfort and security. I have released on her past situation and shown her how free, confident and secure she will feel if she lets the fear attachment to water go and embraces the swimming experience fully. Once she saw herself with an ability to swim with glee and fully enjoy herself, she let it go willingly. There will be 2 weeks of integration, so patience please until then.
oceanablue57 replied: OMG Taya what a difference! We went swimming at a friends house and she was the complete opposite. She has gone from hating the water to having absolutely no fear of it and believing fully that she can swim already. My husband and I, although overjoyed are now having a problem with her overconfidence! Can you wind it down a bit?? PS. India is a stomach sleeper and has been as long as I can remember!
Taya replied: That's great that she’s having such a beautiful reaction, remember it’s 2 weeks integration, so we’ll give her until then to settle herself in. If she’s still over confident to a point of stress for you after that, we’ll tweak it.
Fear of flying and turbulence
29 Dec 2009, 10:17
Dear Taya,
I sat with you on a plane from Brisbane to Townsville and what an angel you were! I HAD a fear of flying and turbulence until I was lucky enough to meet you on that day of fate. I was on my way to visit my grandchildren and thought I was in a world of trouble until you released my fear of flying. I still don’t know quite how you did it with all those questions but I sure felt better for the rest of my journey, and on the way home, I started to feel those feelings again, but they weren’t half as bad and I could control them easily. By the time I landed home I was peaceful, calm and even had a little nap before that. Thank you for your help I won’t forget it and hope by writing to your website you get some more business from people in Brisbane who need it. juliejoy.hollendale
Taya replied: Great to hear from you Julie. Every now and then I am seated next to someone on a plane who has a fear of flying, and I just cannot help myself. It’s wonderful to hear it’s working for you and that you’re allowing it to work more and more strongly each time. Those feelings will continue to strengthen the more you allow them to, and who knows as a result, the healing may even spill into another area of your life where you’re ready to let go of fear.
Phobia of water and swimming
23 Jan 2010, 14:20
Dear Taya,
I have recently done your weight loss program with great success and my husband Cliff did your quit smoking therapy last year an is still of the smokes! We were wondering if you could help our daughter India. She is 12 months old and has a huge fear of water and swimming. The swim school said her reaction was normal and would wear off after a month at the most, but since starting lessons 6 weeks ago it has actually gotten worse and I can’t even get her in the water. We stopped lessons as it was just too hard for me, but now I’m noticing its happening at friends places and in other instances too. Can you help?- oceanablue57.
Taya replied: Dear oceanablue57, What is she like in the bath? After muscle testing this is something that seems to have originated from birth and her very first bath at the hospital?? I have removed the stress from this incident and noticed that her safest feeling place in water is on her side - not something they would practice at the swim schools. I have released on: “I feel vulnerable” like being placed on her back in water for the first time left her “open” in a negative way. I also feel she spent a lot of time in the womb laying on her side or floating on her tummy, so sleeping in her cot on her back took some serious adjusting to as a new born. The whole water experience from that moment on, has just compounded over and over again, and is now at the point where water in any situation, particularly swimming, brings out these feelings of vulnerability and she fights for a level of comfort and security. I have released on her past situation and shown her how free, confident and secure she will feel if she lets the fear attachment to water go and embraces the swimming experience fully. Once she saw herself with an ability to swim with glee and fully enjoy herself, she let it go willingly. There will be 2 weeks of integration, so patience please until then.
oceanablue57 replied: OMG Taya what a difference! We went swimming at a friends house and she was the complete opposite. She has gone from hating the water to having absolutely no fear of it and believing fully that she can swim already. My husband and I, although overjoyed are now having a problem with her overconfidence! Can you wind it down a bit?? PS. India is a stomach sleeper and has been as long as I can remember!
Taya replied: That's great that she’s having such a beautiful reaction, remember it’s 2 weeks integration, so we’ll give her until then to settle herself in. If she’s still over confident to a point of stress for you after that, we’ll tweak it.
29 Dec 2009, 10:17
Dear Taya,
I sat with you on a plane from Brisbane to Townsville and what an angel you were! I HAD a fear of flying and turbulence until I was lucky enough to meet you on that day of fate. I was on my way to visit my grandchildren and thought I was in a world of trouble until you released my fear of flying. I still don’t know quite how you did it with all those questions but I sure felt better for the rest of my journey, and on the way home, I started to feel those feelings again, but they weren’t half as bad and I could control them easily. By the time I landed home I was peaceful, calm and even had a little nap before that. Thank you for your help I won’t forget it and hope by writing to your website you get some more business from people in Brisbane who need it. juliejoy.hollendale
Taya replied: Great to hear from you Julie. Every now and then I am seated next to someone on a plane who has a fear of flying, and I just cannot help myself. It’s wonderful to hear it’s working for you and that you’re allowing it to work more and more strongly each time. Those feelings will continue to strengthen the more you allow them to, and who knows as a result, the healing may even spill into another area of your life where you’re ready to let go of fear.
