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Dear Taya...

A kitten has wondered into my yard, and I'm not sure what to do.
28 Apr 2010, 12:41

The Following was the result of many text messages and phone calls.....

Dear Taya,

A kitten has wondered into my yard, and I'm not sure what to do.  I think I need to keep it safe. 
Julie, Q.

Taya Replied: Catching him won't be easy.   The worst thing you could do is pounce on him, because that will extend the process, but I do see you catching him and your plan to take him to the vet for re-homing feels right.. Good Luck.

Julie Replied over the course of 2 days:

Dear Taya, The kitten came back yesterday on dark.  Fed him again but couldn't catch him.  Let Bert (My Cat) out early this morning, and woke to find kitten playing with one of his toys in the kitchen.  I flew out and shut the door. 
He had another feed shut up in the bathroom but the little tyke can run fast and got out!  He ran under the back fence again. lets hope my rescue plan comes off again tonight/tomorrow am. I've decided to take straight to the vet tmrw am.

This is proving to be a challenge! I think i'm the only one that knows about him now, am doing the only feeding, he seems to sleep it off over the fence in their shrubby garden
had dinner tonight here, was in the kitchen again at 5am this morning, but went when he saw me stirring
I missed a couple of opportunities to grab him lastnight, and did a stupid thing this morning and pounced - threw a little rug trying to weigh him down, didnt work!  he still is attracted to bert and will come within a metre of me but then takes off when i move
i dont want another pet, also i dont want a kitty living part time with me and having to watch with driving in the yard etc!  is it appropriate to do a quick fix? would that help, perhaps reduce being scared of me?
HA argh as gorgeous as he is, i will pay for a balance for him/her, so i can deliver him to safety!

Taya replied: You missed your chance to move him on quickly. He is now around for up to 3 days. He's going to go to a lovely little old lady who needs the company. To do this he'll have to learn about how to behave as a house cat, so is learning from you and Bert appropriate behaviour. I've put a bubble around him and I don't believe any harm will come to him. Your job is to virtually ignore him. He'll come to/thru your door when he's learnt enough from you and you'll simply close it behind him. I've given him 3 days Max, but I've encouraged him to do it sooner, showing him the lap of the lady he'll live with - Purr Purr he likes that very much! I've done stuff on safety, hydration and 3 rounds of electrolytes etc as he's quite dehydrated on an energy level, as well as sorting through his major block with timing, as he's stuffing it up.

The next day:

Julie Replied: Thankyou all great, just handed him over  You and your gifts are wonderful!  I put out more toys for him anyway for the morning's play session.  It was easy in the end and I found a vet that would take him.
thanks for all your help, another soul saved.
Julie.  

I am having some stresses at my work with my colleagues.
28 Mar 2010, 13:43

Dear Taya,

I am having some stresses at my work with my colleagues.  There are 3 of them, all male and I really want to make some changes, but they don’t take me seriously.  I am in a senior management position, but they treat me as their junior, even though technically, I have equal authority within my area of decision making and responsibility.  One of them is vindictive another patronising and the other a kiss arse (excuse my french, but there’s simply no other way to phrase it).  

After a few emails to and fro, Taya establishes the request from oscar_helen is actually: Can you help me to assert myself enough in this one proposal so I can re-establish myself as an equal business partner within the firm?
- oscar_helen
Taya replied: Sure!  You’re not going to like me saying this, but you are taking some of the things they say and do waaaaay too personally.  Do you think you are the only person they treat this way?  - Don’t kid yourself, they’re like this with everyone, however you find this particularly insulting and it triggers many highly emotional, but sometimes irrational thinking patterns.  You’re the one who makes yourself lose sleep over it at night, and wishing they were different with you (and no one else) is wishful thinking.
What we CAN do is work with you until you can remain peaceful and composed - no matter how badly they behave.
I’ve released on: I feel “ little”, a stress which has come up at ages 42, 40, 39, 37, 28, 22, 16, 7 and 3years old.  I’ve also released: humility, obsessed (you really go over and over the events and behaviors that tick you off) and confident (you’re not confident around them, and this is a BIG stress for you).
Most of this tied into experiences and baggage that you are carrying around the issues of self worth, body image and father defenses.  (I hope this makes sense for you).
After the balance I felt a freeing of stress and tension in my neck back and shoulders, and like a wave of energy was allowed to come into my heart chakra area - opening yourself to more loving experiences.  I would like also to talk with you about some re-programming we can do to help you with your mentality and some language that can cut through the BS for you when you’re with them to allow yourself the upper hand or a more even playing field if you’re open to it.  I feel this will give you the result you’re looking for in your upcoming proposal.  
oscar_helen replied: The proposal went off without a hitch.  I was quite prepared to go for the jugular, but needless to say, it was so calm and peaceful, defending was not necessary.  I’ve implemented the body language techniques to get what I want in the work environment, and the placement of my office furniture and in the board rooms has really changed things.  Other staff members seem to see me in a different light now.  My colleagues are still obnoxious, but they focus their attention elsewhere, as they just don’t get a rise out of me.  I still get a bit annoyed sometimes, but then I give myself a reality check and pull myself into line pretty quickly.  This was much easier after our second session, and I’m embarrassed I was still wingeing after the first one.  You really showed me some home truths.  I am grateful for your time. I was not quite prepared for the ease with which things changed, all because of my attitude towards it.   You gave me 3 sessions at no charge so I will tell my friends, family and colleagues how I managed to find peace.
Phobia of water and swimming
23 Jan 2010, 14:20

Dear Taya,

I have recently done your weight loss program with great success and my husband Cliff did your quit smoking therapy last year an is still of the smokes!  We were wondering if you could help our daughter India.  She is 12 months old and has a huge fear of water and swimming.  The swim school said her reaction was normal and would wear off after a month at the most, but since starting lessons 6 weeks ago it has actually gotten worse and I can’t even get her in the water.  We stopped lessons as it was just too hard for me, but now I’m noticing its happening at friends places and in other instances too.  Can you help?- oceanablue57.  

Taya replied: Dear oceanablue57, What is she like in the bath?  After muscle testing this is something that seems to have originated from birth and her very first bath at the hospital??  I have removed the stress from this incident and noticed that her safest feeling place in water is on her side - not something they would practice at the swim schools.  I have released on:  “I feel vulnerable” like being placed on her back in water for the first time left her “open” in a negative way.  I also feel she spent a lot of time in the womb laying on her side or floating on her tummy, so sleeping in her cot on her back took some serious adjusting to as a new born.  The whole water experience from that moment on, has just compounded over and over again, and is now at the point where water in any situation, particularly swimming, brings out these feelings of vulnerability and she fights for a level of comfort and security.  I have released on her past situation and shown her how free, confident and secure she will feel if she lets the fear attachment to water go and embraces the swimming experience fully.  Once she saw herself with an ability to swim with glee and fully enjoy herself, she let it go willingly.  There will be 2 weeks of integration, so patience please until then.

oceanablue57 replied:
OMG Taya what a difference!  We went swimming at a friends house and she was the complete opposite.  She has gone from hating the water to having absolutely no fear of it and believing fully that she can swim already.  My husband and I, although overjoyed are now having a problem with her overconfidence!  Can you wind it down a bit??  PS. India is a stomach sleeper and has been as long as I can remember!

Taya replied:
That's great that she’s having such a beautiful reaction, remember it’s 2 weeks integration, so we’ll give her until then to settle herself in.  If she’s still over confident to a point of stress for you after that, we’ll tweak it.

Fear of flying and turbulence
29 Dec 2009, 10:17

Dear Taya,

I sat with you on a plane from Brisbane to Townsville and what an angel you were!  I HAD a fear of flying and turbulence until I was lucky enough to meet you on that day of fate.  I was on my way to visit my grandchildren and thought I was in a world of trouble until you released my fear of flying.  I still don’t know quite how you did it with all those questions but I sure felt better for the rest of my journey, and on the way home, I started to feel those feelings again, but they weren’t half as bad and I could control them easily.  By the time I landed home I was peaceful, calm and even had a little nap before that.  Thank you for your help I won’t forget it and hope by writing to your website you get some more business from people in Brisbane who need it.  juliejoy.hollendale

Taya replied:  Great to hear from you Julie.  Every now and then I am seated next to someone on a plane who has a fear of flying, and I just cannot help myself.  It’s wonderful to hear it’s working for you and that you’re allowing it to work more and more strongly each time.  Those feelings will continue to strengthen the more you allow them to, and who knows as a result, the healing may even spill into another area of your life where you’re ready to let go of fear.

The dog is reaking havoc!
26 Oct 2009, 12:05

Dear Taya,

I am writing to you with the hope of some help with my dog.
My new partner and I have taken the next step and moved in together.  He currently has a job in the mines and so is away for 2 weeks and then home for a week etc.  His dog (now our dog) and I miss him terribly when he’s gone, but lately her behavior has been even more erratic.  We are renting a beautiful home near the beach in tropical Queensland.  She has taken to ruining all the screen doors among many other things around the house inside and out and now the damage bill is weighing so heavily on my partner that he is ready to re-home her.  We don’t know what’s gotten into her, and are wondering if you can help.  I would love for her to stay as she is such great company when he is away and I truly enjoy our walks together on the beach. - Gemini QLD Coast.

Taya replied: There is so much going on in this equation that I’m not surprised there is some bad behavior. There’s been: moving house, a new relationship and a complete change of energy, so we could expect attention seeking and erratic behavior.  
As dog’s are pack animals by nature, she senses the change in the house hold dynamic and she is grappling with her “place” in the pack now that you have come on the scene. She is trying to be “with him” and will tear through any doors to do so.  What is interesting is she doesn’t see that she has moved down in the ranks, simply that she doesn’t have a ranking anymore and she will do anything to re-establish her original place - not realising there are other options.  In order to get through to her, I have shown her the cold hard truth, that if she doesn’t accept you, she will be re-homed, and also that it is yourself that is fighting to keep her there.  I sense at the moment that your partner has other stresses to deal with, and so the disturbance to his nights sleep and the bills she is accumulating don’t meet with much sympathy for her issues, which only fuel her separation anxiety and her desperation to re-assert herself back to her original position. 
By showing her and teaching her about the possibility of a new place in the pack (No 3) she immediately relaxed, understanding that if she couldn’t be No 2 anymore, that didn’t mean she couldn’t be there at all.  Her new “place” in the house has brought her “peace” and she now looks forward to relaxing with both of you and sharing some special moments with her beloved master once again.  I wish you all the best of luck.

Gemini replied: We noticed a difference straight away, between what you’ve done, and some changes around letting her in certain areas of the house at certain times of the day, she is much happier and has stopped destroying things.  Thanks Taya.
Help me I'm a Clostraphobic!
26 Aug 2009, 16:01

Dear Taya,

I know you specialise in helping with many things - can you do claustrophobia?
Tamsyn, QLD.

Taya replied: As you are a Brisbane resident - why don't you come in for a treatment? It'll only take 1 or two sessions!
- Tamsyn's Irrational fear of confined spaces was largely locked in from an incident she suffered at 8 years of age when playing in a creek with her cousins.  The creek had an old concrete pipe which filled up with water, and in a game of hide and seek - she found herself underwater in a small pipe.  Her cousins took longer than expected to find her.  As the creek waters rose slightly, she panicked that she may not get out in time and drown.  Ever since, small spaces remind her of this incident and she can't breathe.  This memory was clearly imprinted in her mind, so no regression was necessary.  After a couple of sessions the fear was removed and Tamsyn is back to enjoying life to the full. 
Tamsyn said: It's amazing, its been two weeks since my session and I just feel better and better and better.  I used the lift at Westfield today, first time ever, and I've been on the slippery slide at the local pool with the kids, and at Macdonald's playground I've rescued Jackson my 3 year old from the top tunnel.  Imagine that, I'm now so comfortable with pipes, I can rescue others!!  Thank you Taya,  it was so easy!
Taya I'm writing to claim on my free treatment
26 Aug 2009, 15:27

This story follows last months entry...

Dear Taya,

Yes I have Red hair!! (as per our last email) OMG It's amazing Taya.  Although I stressed and stressed and stressed about it, thinking it couldn't possibly happen - I now have a great job in New Jersey doing research in Molecular Behavioural Biology.  The job turned up two days after I emailed you, and after a series of interviews, I started this week.  Taya I'm writing to claim on my free treatment, as I have met a major block.  I love the work I do and have gotten top marks in all my studies, but I have lost all my confidence around other scientists, feeling inadequate.  I just can't see how I can make a difference here, or with anything I'm doing.  I'm proud of my job, but feel like as a junior/rookie, I'm subordinate to everything.  I was so confident when I was studying, but feel a mess now - please help.  I noticed when I spoke to some friends on the phone and they asked me how much money I made, I shrunk in my chair, as I felt unqualified and not worthy of my salary.  Please, please, please can you release on this for me.  I don't want to mess up what I have worked so long to achieve.
Trinity.  USA

Taya Replied:  Dear Trinity,  Chin up, we'll have you fixed in a jiffy!   Congratulations on the job by the way.
Trinity, I picking up a stress around age 4, feeling inadequate.  It was something your Dad went through when you were four and you felt this stress as your own.  I feel it was around his work/study areas too.  He didn't know how to deal with it, and so you don't know either.  Ti sis irrational for you, because I feel you ARE doing what you are meant to , it's just brought up this past memory.  I've also located this emotion causing stress at ages 14 years, 18 years, 21 years and 24 years old.  These were all work related things too, and just added to your personal insecurities.  Removing these stresses for you will help you to be able to put your current stress behind you and keep moving forward.  Let me know how you go - your correction will take about 2 months to reach full effect, and you'll have it sorted by then.  (I feel someone new will be starting then too, and perhaps the focus of the rookie will shift).  You are doing what you were born to do - so how could that be wrong?  There are two people around you in particular that will help you grow into the "role" you've studied for your whole life.  good luck, and don't forget to enjoy the ride....
Trinity Replied: As usual - you're right about everything.  I haven't met the second person you talk of, but have already had a chat with one of my superiors and we've "clicked" on so many alternate subjects, and amazingly he is a Kryon fan - The book you highly recommended I read, so I know he will have a role in my grooming.  Taya, can I be bold and say I feel better already?  All the tension has just melted away and I feel so much calmer.  I'm excited to go to work each day, and more at ease talking to others about it.  I truly feel better, so am looking forward to feeling better and better as I settle in.
PS Dad got promoted to a desk job when I was four and he couldn't handle it - he's a grease monkey and after 4 months just couldn't take it and threw in his job to go back to his old role.   Mum says he felt humiliated more than anything - but I guess I picked up more on inadequate.  I certainly felt this way in my teens alot too.


I met you about 5 years ago
25 Jul 2009, 14:03

Dear Taya,
I met you about 5 years ago at the riverside Markets in Brisbane.  You were doing psychic readings and you were pregnant at the time.  You gave me some profound information that no one could have possibly known and I'm writing to say it all came true!
You said you didn't come down to the markets very much anymore, and that it was just a thing you felt inspired to do for about 3 or 4 weeks - so I always felt as if we were meant to meet.  I only spent an hour with you, but that hour has single handedly changed my life.  I know so much about my own personal direction because of it.  I am writing today to tell you that I have finished doing my naturopathy degree and my degree in bio- medicine and medical engineering.  I'm living in the states and am applying for work in the research field with the effects of nutrition and bioscience.  Do I uproot and take the job in DC, or stay where I am and wait for something good to crop up?  The job in DC pays well, and is groundbreaking and exciting research work - but it's in DC.  Can you help me with this?

Trinity.  USA.
Taya Replied: Dear Trinity, Flame red hair??? 
I will never make a decision for you, that's something you can do by yourself.  What I can tell you is, the universe is going to kep sending you groundbreaking research jobs because thats what you are meant to be doing!!  You're too gifted in both areas of medicine and too important to let sit on the shelf so rest assured a job closer to home will arrive and sooner than you think.  However - I can see you very happily moving soon.  You've got your bags packed and I can see you telling someone "I'm so glad I came" .  How wonderful to have any circumstance you'd like!  I feel your work for the next 3 years will be quite demanding, and you'll need to have good support around you, so its good to think things through logistically and emotionally.  There is an older lady that's coming into your life soon, and she will provide solutions to things you hadn't thought of.  Also, the next job will pose quite a challenge to you around your self esteem issues.  You really will have to address your own insecurities, especially around your value/worth - yes I notice you said the jobs pay well, but there's still some work to do.   As this isn't really a treatment as such - I am happy to suspend your free balance until such times as you need it in your new role at work.  All the best,  Taya. 
Help me with alcohol addiction
26 Jun 2009, 19:00

Dear Taya,

I'm hoping you can help me with alcohol addiction.  I've had troubles in the past, but have been able to get through.  I don't want to go on and on about it, but lately my life has fallen apart with my health ailing, and my husband leaving.  My son has also moved overseas and I just can't seem to cope.  I have been drinking to help me cope, but now my job is being affected and I know it's only a matter of time before they let me go.  I am going to AA, but not consistently.  I just can't seem to want to get better.  If there is a way you could perhaps hypnotize me into hating it, I'm sure I would have a better chance.  Your reply is appreciated.
Lost and Lonely.

Taya Replied: Dear Lost and Lonely,  It's a good thing that you are seeking help, but a bad thing you think it can be solved with the wave of a magical hypnotic wand.  We all wish our problems would go away, but we're never in the place to actually free ourselves until we truly WANT change.  You say you need help to "hate it" but if you're honest you already do hate it - and this has not given you the incentive to let it go so far, so it will not bring you the answer with hypnosis either.  You've been courageous enough to battle through in the past you say, and yet you're facing so much now.  It sounds like you've had to face extraordinary challenges in the last few years that most hope they never have in a whole lifetime!  I want you to know I think you're amazing.  I can see that even in your time of need, you have managed to help others.  I see meals made and prepared and clothes in bags that you've kindly donated, and I can see the expressions on their faces - true gratitude for your kindness.  How much support are you actually letting in?  How many can even see you are in trouble?  If your work has seen this, have they offered help?  It's time for you to let others help YOU for a change, because you really can't do this on your own.  You need more than a hypnotic magic wand.  There's so much "pain in love" that its really not safe to get better yet.
I have corrected "loss" and "revenge" as two priority emotions holding you back, and in the process have planted some seeds about wanting to get well.  Interestingly, I think the revenge is directed at yourself for allowing your husband to walk out, and then your son soon after.  The two men you felt you gave everything to, but I also feel you didn't give them the gift of giving, never allowing them to help you, and then wondering why they were so selfish in the end.  The most profound ages for this were 45 and 43.  I felt deeply wounded at your age of 31 around these feelings also. I have completed the Kinergetics Hydration balance on you, so I know you will be feeling better very soon, both physically and emotionally - with a stronger ability to process what is happening to you, and still remain in balance.  I've also done brain integration: so you should be able to get your head around things a bit more.  I will continue to release more emotional pressure so that you can more easily "let go", and then perhaps you'll have a fighting chance of letting alcohol grow.
  I look forward so much to when you DO want the changes you so readily deserve...
After several treatments to and fro, Lost and Lonely replied: Today I have woken up happy.  It has been a long time since I have had feelings of this kind, and I am frankly surprised at how quickly things have turned around. It has only been 7 weeks since i first emailed you and the changes have been exhausting but amazing.  I can't thank you enough.  I can now honestly say I feel "safe" to finally let go and I am looking forward to hypnosis with you next week.  i have drastically cut down my drinking, but am hopeful that your hypnosis program for alcohol will give me the thought pattern I need to relinquish it forever. I truly want the changes.  Thank you for your kindness and support, all out of the goodness of your heart.
Lost and FOUND.

He wee's on everything and howls when there is no one home.
26 Jun 2009, 19:00

Dear Taya,

You helped me quit cigarettes 2 months ago.  I was pregnant at the time and the baby is born and still no desire to smoke!  The reason I am writing though is we have a spaniel (Tucker) that we are looking after for some friends who are overseas. At first I thought it would be great for the kids, but its been a week and we are seriously regretting it.  He wee's on everything and howls when there is no one home.  Its driving us all crazy.  I'm thinking of taking him to a kennel for the rest of their holiday, unless there is something you can do?
- Karla.
Taya replied:  Hello Karla, great to hear you're doing so well. Baby Girl or Boy? 
Tucker: Through muscle testing, I have found that this is just a really simple case of separation anxiety.  He's missing his family, who are normally always with him and - in his eyes just packed up and left, dropping him off on the way.  He is desperate to reclaim (hence the wee) a sense of territory and thinks his family are gone for good.  He's finding it really hard to cope with all the changes, especially since your kids are much younger than the child/children from the other family.  His priority emotions were "I feel woeful" and I feel "vivacious" meaning its hard to be happy and pretend everything's okay when it's really not!  It will take 10 days to integrate the work done now. (Sorry it's not sooner).  He would suit a house sitter next time, or someone going over with food, rather than the complete changes he's had to face with no warning this time - but with the work done today, it might all just pan out fine! 
(Taya also found out the exact days and times when Tuckers owners were arriving home and let Tucker know when they'd be back).
Karla replied: Actually he's already better.  He has only gone out and wee'd around the garden this morning (about a dozen times on one tree!!), but nothing else since, and nothing inside thank goodness, and amazingly he has spent all day asleep under the coffee table!  Can't wait to see what he'll be like after 10 days... 
Thank you!

Help with test anxiety
3 May 2009, 20:48

Dear Taya,
I came to see you to quit smoking about a year ago (thanks no fags ever since - 60 a day to zero in one session flat!!).  I was wondering, since I had such amazing results with you last time if you could help me with test anxiety.  I'd ring you personally, but am a bit poor so hope you pick me for the Dear Taya letter of the month!  I am studying a degree in Business Management.  I love the work, love the classes, but completely flunk out on the assessment pieces as I'm so damn nervous.  Even my assignments are suffering as I just can't seem to convey the knowledge into assessment format.  i get right into it in class, and have no trouble at work - but as soon as there's a test I just clam up.  I rememeber having trouble in highschool with this too.  If you can help in any way, I'd be really thankful to you.
Tim, QLD

Taya Replied: Hey Tim, way to go on kicking the smoking!  Have done some balancing on your situation and think I've been able to help.  I've done brain integration on you, and brian hydration aswell.  In order to do any task - we need our brain to be integrated in a way that all functions can come together.  The right brain has to be able to talk to the left, the front brain to the back etc etc. If your brain isn't intergrated around an issue, it means the different parts can't work together, thus causing confusion and the flunking out you speak of.  Just doing this, and the hydration balance - (our bodies are made up of almost 80% water, so we need our brain to be well hydrated on an energy level to maintain balance and assist with brain function and cell to cell communication), will give a great result.  I feel like it goes much further than this though - so I looked into things a bit more.  I began by doing some work on test anxiety itself as an emotion.  It was amazing what came up.  Strangely enough, the emotion I feel "De-Valued" was the strongest, and there were several recent ages this emotion was felt, but the first time you experienced this emotion was at age 6.  This was a stress your Father experienced about a work situation and you picked up on it.  It was a very big stress that impacted on your whole family.  Once removed and balanced I felt a shift in your energy, and I believe wholeheartedly that you are now safe to take a test without drudging up all the baggage of your fathers past.  Hope it helps.
Tim replied:  My family and I are originally from Croatia.  My father was an optometrist there, and my mother has informed me that when we immigrated he was devastated to find that his qualifications were not recognised in this country.  He was offered work in a factory that made the lenses, but in order to regain a position in Optometry, he had to re-sit all his exams and re-qualify as an optometrist in Australia. He felt very de-valued!! I was completely unaware of all of this, but my Mum told me all about it.  He was really upset by the whole thing and even considered taking his own life at one point, when I was about 6!!  No wonder I felt dreadful.  She also said that this happened when my Father was 31 - Which is the same age I am now.  Thank you for your help and wish me luck with my exams!

New Friends
11 Mar 2009, 10:35

Dear Taya,
I have recently moved to a new place, and a new town.  I've got a few colleagues at work, but no-one I can really hang out with.  Can you set me up with a new group of pals to make this place more exciting?
Angela. NSW
Taya Replied: Dear Angela, I feel you left your last place because you had had enough, and were ready to make a new start.  I'm worried that there weren't any quality friendships in your old life, and so you may be bringing the same situation into a new scenery.  Lets do some work on attracting one or two really good friends who you can have a laugh with, but are also there when you need them.  Its about time you offered more of yourself in this fashion too,  the party life can only bring more of the same for you - "emptinesss" which is what you were trying to get away from.  With Angela's permission, Taya has done a correction around "needing others to feel good", and "self worth".  There are 2 great girls in your energy ready to go.  Be careful to treat them well, and they will always hold you in the same regard. 
Angela replied: Taya you're so right about why I left town, and what I was about to do all over again.  I would LOVE one or two nice friends over a group any day, as I have never had it before. 
4/3/09 - The two girls fromt he post office have invited me for a shopping trip next weekend - I think this is it. Thankyou so much, you've done it again.
Burmese Cat with the Blues
3 Feb 2009, 14:16

Dear Taya,
We have a beautiful burmese cat named Charlie.  He drives us crazy as he yowls from morning til night.  He is so loud Taya, we can't hear ourselves think.  The reason we're writing is not because of that, but because he has stopped yowling and is melancholy all the time.  He won't come out of my daughters bedroom, and rarely sleeps in the garden anymore, he is also off his food.  We have taken him to the vet, but they couldn't find anything physically wrong with him. Can you help?
Jasmin. Q.
Taya replied: Dear Jasmin, wow he is pretty loud when he gets going isn't he?  I feel there are two things effecting Charlie's mood.  His monthly flea treatment medicine, and something in the house environment is mssing. (He didn't say what, just went into great detail about how it wasn't the same anymore).  Has someone moved out?? It feels like he is grieving the absence of someone.  I have corrected him, and hope he is back to normal soon, he muscle tests for another 2 weeks of sulking and then he'll be okay. It's important to keep a close eye on pets that are greiving so please keep me informed.  Taya gave more specific details about his reaction/sensitivity to flea treatment.
Jasmin replied: The only thing we can think of is Raelene our cleaner who comes twice a week is on a cruise.  She left last week and is due back in two weeks.  We think he started before she left though.  She does give him lots of cuddles and pats, but we had no idea they were so close.  You were spot on abou the flea treatment, it started exactly 4 days after we gave it to him!!  He is a bit more social already, but still isn't himself.  Thanks Taya, I will recommend you to friends.
Taya Replied: YES - That's it! Bet Raelene talked about the trip alot before she left? This coupled with the flea treatment was enough to make him very blue....
Phobia's
7 Dec 2008, 13:21

Dear Taya,
Please can you help me with my phobias.  I have three.  A terrible fear of flying, a fear of dogs and a fear of heights.  Can your services assist with this?
Roger, NT.
Taya Replied: YES I can help!  Phobia's are a debilitating disorder, and cause great immobilizing fear to those who possess them, however they are one of the easiest to work with, and the success rate in removing them is high, and permanent.
Roger, you mention the three, but it is particularly the fear of flying that causes you great distress.  You're planning a trip aren't you - but not while you've got that phobia.  I wonder if you came over to Australia by boat originally?   The fear of flying is actually an extended version of your fear of heights.  The fear of heights was locked in at age 5 with a situation involving another male family member - perhaps a brother , cousin or Father?  - this was then cemented in with a traumatic event at 17 years old in a work situation.   There have been several traumatic experiences since, so this phobia is heavily anchored in - no wonder it has spilled into other forms (flying).  I have eliminated the trauma from these events, with a remote balance -  Most of the stress you feel in relation to the phobias is still with the irrational mind of a young child.  Now with your adult mind we can clear them.  You will feel genuine relief from this balance in all three area's of phobia, but there is still more we can achieve, please give me a call and we'll go over it more in depth.
Roger Replied: You have a true gift, you are wonderful.  My family and I moved here from Italy 47 years ago - by boat.  I don't remember a traumatic incident at 5 years old, but I have 3 brothers, and it could have been.  When I was first working with my father, we had a property with large grain towers.  When I was 17, I witnessed the death of our neighbor as we were unloading the grain, a very dangerous job.  It haunted me for 2 years, but then I put it behind me.  I feel great relief from the treatment, but am still afraid to fly.  I will enjoy our session next Wednesday to find more relief.    I feel okay about heights now and my wife is pleased I can stand on the chair to change the light bulb.  Thank you dear for your help with a pensioner.  God Bless you and your family.
I have a teeneager with autism...
21 Nov 2008, 12:00

Dear Taya,
I was wondering if you had any experience with autism?  I have a teenager with autism and we have been taking him to Naturopaths, Acupuncturists and the like.  We have also tried many other alternate therapies, so we are very open minded.  Is there any light you can shed on his condition, or whether your services can help him?  Thank you for your help.
Di Rogerson, Qld.

Taya Replied: Dear Di,  your son has a beautiful energy.  I feel you have had some major wins with alternative health treatments already.  I also feel he is well on his way to even more improvement.  There is much that kinesiology can help with, as it helps anyone and everyone with no exceptions.  I feel honestly that you should look personally into learning about Flower Essences.  You can do courses in Bach Flower Rememdies and Australian Bush Flower Essences right here in Brisbane.  The Perfect Potion have information on these courses and can help you out with the schedules.  You would be great at it, and will just KNOW which blend to give him at certain times with dramatic results.  Please look into it.  Also, there are a great many people out there in similar circumstances to you, and would greatly benefit from hearing about your journey, and the journey of your son.  The universe is beckoning you to reveal this information - perhaps through a book or a website??    Best of luck to you all, Taya.
Taya also forwarded information of how kinergetics can help with autism.
My heartache over my husband's affair.
10 Oct 2008, 17:03

Dear Taya,
I'm writing in the hope that you can shed some light on my own personal hell.  I feel like I'm drowning and everyone around me is just watching.  Last year my husband had a 6 month affair with his personal assistant.  She still works with him in that role and they have to go to company dinners and functions as part of their work.  It drives me crazy.  My husband says that it's over, but you only have to be in the same room as them no notice how much they are wanting to be together.  They stand there undressing eachother with their eyes as if no one else can see what's going on, but that's exactly it - EVERYONE can see what's going on.  I feel so embarrassed and so angry that he could do this to me and continue to do this to me.  We once had a special relationship, but now all we do is fight, and it all comes back down to the fact that he had an affair.  He says if I can't get over it, then we'll never move on.  But how can i forgive him for this?  And how can I possibly ever feel good with him again knowing he'd rather be with her than me?

Raelene Birsch.

Taya replied: Dear Raelene, Hmm - a tough situation for everyone to be in.  Your pain is clear, he sounds tormented, and his PA would certainly be finding it hard to deal with the fact she has/had feelings for 1. her boss, 2. a maried man and 3. a man who chose someone else.  After tappiing in, I've found that this stress for you is all fairly recent - meaning its not all tied in to feelings of abandonement from age 5, or a grief episode that occurred in high school.  So with that in mind, lets unravel this current stress.
I am in no way taking sides, or approving of anyone's behaviour here, but lets address how you're feeling.  You indicate you want to be free of your pain around the situation.  So lets begin.  After muscle testing your stresses - the hardest thing about it is "how can I possibly ever feel good with him again knowing he'd rather be with her than me?".  Raelene is that a reality? or an illusion?  What I'm saying is - Is that comment true? You say its obvious when they are together, but the thing is- he's WITH you.  He chose you.  That's obvious to everyone also.  He could have continued to be with her, but the reality is - He's WITH you.  So at some stage - he chose you.  If he would rather be with her, he would be.  But he comes home to you every night.  What emotional feelings do you have when you believe this illusion?  Hurt, embarrassed and resentful all muscle test for you.  What is your behaviour like towards him and others when you are living this illusion?  You're cruel and short tempered.  So if he didn't really love you, why would he choose you, and then choose to put up with you?  He must adore you!!
If you didn't believe this illusion, what would your life be like?  Could it be that the stress is just this illusion that you are living, and if you chose to live the reality instead, you would indeed be free of all these feelings?  I have released on Hurt, embarrassed and resentful for you, and you will begin to feel some relief from this in a few hours.  However, for you the question is not "how can he do this to me?" rather, "how can I do this to me?" and to your relationship.  Remember, you chose to stay too.
Raelene replied:  I never thought of it like that, but you're right.  Even when I'm completely horrible, he still loves me.  I kept going over and over in my mind how badly he behaved, but then I realised it was me that behaved badly.  It was me that left him to begin with.  I had become so consumed in my work and my social life with the girls, that I had betrayed him long before he betrayed me.  I was just as much to blame as he was.  After being open and honest with him, something amazing happened.  I was expecting an arguement, or for him to just brush me off, but we sat there in eachothers arms sobbing, and then remembering just how special we were.  We have both organized time off work and are going on a much needed holiday.  We still have a long ways to go, but at least we are both moving in the same direction - Towards eachother!

having problems with abdominal bloating
20 Sep 2008, 13:03

Dear Taya, 
Am really hoping you can be some help to me and my family.  My sons and I are having problems with abdominal bloating.  We have seen many doctors and naturopaths etc. to help alleviate this.  The naturopaths were convinced we had intolerances to gluten and the like.  The doctors have been testing us for other things medically based, but have not been abe to provide answers either.  It started about 6 months ago when we returned to Germany.  We had been living symptom free with no problems of any nature in beautiful Switzerland.  My husband has returned us here for his work.  We are adjusting well, all but the stomach bloating.  I was wondering if you maybe could share any insight?
Roberta J.
Taya replied:  I was about to send a detailed email back to Roberta asking specific questions about the situation around the bloating and the moving - but I follwed my gut and sent this instead :-  Dear Roberta,  this is going to sound crazy... but tell me about your water?  There's something weird going on with you lot around water.  Was there bloating when you first moved to Germany or left Switzerland?  There seems to be something tied in to the move, but not directly relating to it.  Could it be as simple as the bloating is caused from the change of water compared to what your bodies were used to in Switzerland?  I'm sure there was a delayed effect though.  You have all tested for higher levels of metals than your bodies can handle.  I have done corrections on you for this to further enhance your bodies natural ability to eliminate toxicity. I think it is these higher levels of metals that is causing the bloating as that is what is coming up - but it just seems too far fetched.  Surprisingly, your husband doesn't have as high levels - which leads me to the question - is he as exposed to the same water as you?  Have corrected as much as I can - would love some feedback!
Roberta replied:  Shortly after we moved to Switzerland, the pipes in our neighbourhood block burst.  The men came to fix, and because we were not there (my mother and her sisters stayed in our apartment) they did some patching around it.  We have been living with temporary measures which works well, until they do more work to the whole street. There was a very big problem with all this and apparently the whole street flooded and was with out clean water for 3 days.  When we return, we had no bloating, but we noticed the water tasted a little different, but we thought it was because water in Switzerland was different tasting to. I'm not sure why we have the bloating and others do not, this does not make sense to me, but i feel much better since I emailed you, and have noticed the bloating is better and for my sons too.  My husband is at work away from home, so doesn't drink the water as much.  He also likes the beer Taya, so is drinking that.  My Mother complained of diarrhea after we moved, am not sure if the sisters too and if it was when the pipes burst.  Maybe this was all the same thing.

 

Have you got any other tips for dieter's?
8 Aug 2008, 10:08

Dear Taya,  

 

I loved the blog you recently did for Jackie about the food – can you let us know a bit more. I was so interested to hear about the emotional reasons we eat.  It just made sense.  I’m trying to lose weight at the moment.  I have tried the shakes and weight watchers.  I need to lose 12 kg’s.  Can you say other ways of looking at this?  Have you got any other tips for dieter’s?  

 

Taya Replied:  Dear Dieter,  Weight is always different for everyone, and what works for one, doesn’t always work for others.  However, the foundation of my weight loss program looks at a few things.  Firstly the past:  “Food” is about nourishment, “extra weight” is about protection and “underweight” is about vulnerability.  Looking at your past – have any of the aforementioned (nourishment, protection & vulnerability) been issues for you? (Doesn't have to be around food specifically - but if you have protection issues, you can usually bet you've stacked on the weight). If so, then depending on the degree of stress, you may need to get some professional help in releasing on this.  The next step is the present.  Louise Hay says that the point of power is always in the present moment.  That’s where the emotional gain’s from eating come in – or resisiting urges etc.  Next is the Future.  What will you have when you are 12kg’s lighter?  Who will you be?  How will you behave?  What will it give you?  You want these wonderful things to be where your focus is all the time – especially when eating, preparing and shopping for food.  Also instead of focusing on hunger ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS focus on how full you are!  Not on how hungry you are, or what you're not allowed to eat etc. Gage how full you are on a scale of 1 – 10. Think about it, if you can shift your awareness to how full you are 24/7 – you will never actually be hungry again (if you are as low as 1 on the scale you are not hungry - just “not very” full) and you’ll be much less likely to binge or break your eating plan.  Hope this helps.

You may not remember me.
26 Jul 2008, 12:10

Dear Taya,

You may not remember me.  We met at the bowls club that day with your phone.  You came up to me and gave me the most beautiful compliment on my hair.  You said I my highlights looked amazing as the sun caught them on the green.  I was blown away that a perfect stranger could appear to me out of nowhere and say just what I needed to hear.  I’m grateful I remembered your name (it was so different) and was able to get in touch with you.  I just had to find you and tell you the importance of that day.  You see, my Husband the day before had just told me he was no longer in love with me and was leaving me.  We had clearly grown apart (though I wouldn’t admit it at the time) but I still thought he loved me.  I was devastated.  We were at the club with friends celebrating a birthday with our usual crowd.  My gal pals were well aware of the situation, and I thought they would rally around me with support, letting me know they were there for me.  Imagine my surprise when they announced I had no one to blame but myself, and that it was up to me to keep things interesting to my partner, and they commented on my appearance.  Although they assured me I looked “fine”, I suddenly started to doubt myself and think that there was nothing special about me, and that he was always out of my league anyway.  I had spent a good 2 years out of my twenties learning to love myself as I am, and was just about to let myself slip back into my old ways of thinking – and you waltzed up to me and said just what I needed to hear.  I felt as though God had sent you himself!  When looking at your web page – it was obvious he had!  I’m so glad to have the opportunity to say thank you and what it meant to me that day.  I went home and stood up to my husband and told him he had made a mistake, and I was worth noticing again!  The two of us are going to counseling with our church group and are slowly making progress.  I don’t think this could have happened without divine intervention that day.

Carolese Vanderbuilt.

Taya Replied: Dear Carolese,  Wow I remember that!  I actually had the overwhelming feeling to hug you that day, after our little chat.  Your hair really was amazing and honestly, to me you were glowing!  I never know why I am compelled to do these things, and I walk away from so many feeling like a complete wally, but I’ve learnt to trust and react straight away – otherwise they just make me go back and do it anyway!  The ripple effect always amazes me and I subscribe to the thought that we are in fact “all one” connected and in tune with eachother. I love the moments when I am in sinc enough to be part of those big changes with others – though I rarely seem to get the other half of the story!  I am humbled by the work the universe does and the beautiful way in which they choose to do it.  Thanks for sharing, you’ve made my day!

 

please help with my food cravings?
2 Jun 2008, 11:22

Dear Taya,  

Can you please help with my food cravings?  That thing you did one time was amazing and lasted ages.  Can you do it again?  I’ve put on HEAPS of weight (doctor says I need to lose 20kg’s) and can’t seem to get back my motivation to go to the gym anymore, even though I used to LOVE it!
HELP TAYA!

Jackie T. QLD. 
 

Taya Replied: Hello Again, glad I could help last time.  I think I did a correction on what my Kinergetics Instructor used to call “The Lollie Muscle”.  It relates to the adrenals which when out of balance give us sugar cravings.  I have corrected this for you again and we can do also do a change from a “like to a dis-like” for the chocolate addiction you mentioned, though if this is a recurring problem for you, it could use some more work.  Seeing as your weight has ballooned, let’s go a bit deeper.    Chocolate is known to have an anti depressant effect as its said to cause a serotonin release.  This is not my area of expertise – so I’ll leave it at that. Why are you reaching for chocolate?  What are you trying to escape from?  When you have a craving, even though you know its not good for you, what pushes you over the edge and lets you have it anyway?  Your emotions are taking over and somewhere along the line you learnt that food would give you something, we call this an emotional benefit.  Assess how you feel in the moments before you just HAVE to eat some, then observe what emotion you think the chocolate is going to “give” you.  It’s a piece of food and is incapable of ‘giving” you a feeling.  What happens is your body has the chocolate/food, and then gives you permission to feel that certain way.  Work out in each moment what you want to feel anyway – and then give your self permission to feel it anyway – or alternatively, look for another healthy way of receiving it.  For eg. If you’re bored, get busy.  If you’re lonely – call a friend or go out somewhere there is lots of people. The more closely you look into each situation – the more success you’re going to have, and better still, you’re unconscious mind will lock in new healthy ways of behaving that illicit those emotions and will work with you to achieve it, rather than working against you all the time.  Good luck and enjoy discovering why it’s happening. 

 Jackie Replied:  Thank you again Taya – you’re a magician.  The other more ‘personal’ things you sent thru have really struck a chord too.  Will keep in touch.  PS That sugar thing you do is amazing!!!

 

 

 

I have recently moved interstate
11 May 2008, 10:50

Dear Taya,  

I have recently moved interstate and am worried I’ll never connect with anyone.  When I left Sydney , I was filled with conviction for my decision to move. Happy and excited at my new job.  Now that I am here, I’m very lonely, haven’t connected with any friends, and to top it off – my job is not what I thought it would be.  Can you see how much longer this is going to go on for? Any help or insight you may have would be appreciated.

 

 Nic, ACT.

Taya Replied: Dear Nic, Great to hear you’re looking at finding more happiness in your life – There’s always room for more.  Instead of foreseeing what is out there for you, let’s look at what thinking got you to where you are –(hope that makes sense).  This is all about Law of attraction stuff.  Before you moved, you “put it out there” you could have a better job, there were parts of your then job you thought could be improved.  “Hmm” Nic thought, “there must be more to this”. This was also reflective of your social life at the time, I feel like friends were moving on around you at the time, and you decided you were ready to let go of that, and invite something new in.  I’ve released on feelings of “I feel somber” ??? – they go back to approx 2 years ago.  You did a great job of working out exactly what you wanted – the universe heard your requests and went in to action.  You put all your energy into creating these changes, but then, when they happened – there was nothing left to attract.  I recommend always having a goal to follow on to.  Otherwise, once we achieve what we’re aiming for – there is ALWAYS a feeling of emptiness when we’ve achieved it.  So what’s next?  I’ve taken your list of grievances about things as they are and turned them around for you.  Start working out what it is you WANT from life again, and reclaim that motivation you had to make it happen (remember, before you left Sydney?)  You’ve already proved you can do it!!

Nic Replied: Yes!! I was unstoppable before I left, and your right – I just expected things to fall into place for me, but had NO idea what that would be.  I’ll work at the new affirmations you’ve written for me, and start thinking about what I really want again.  My boyfriend and I broke up 2 years ago.  It wasn’t the love of the century, and I wasn’t heartbroken or anything, but I realized our friends were really his, and the friends I’d ditched the friends I had before we met – so you are absolutely right, they had moved on.  Thanks for your help, I feel I can take it from here. It takes a special person to do what you do.

 

My grandfather passed away just recently
6 Mar 2008, 09:38

Dear Taya,

I'm writing in the hope you can make sense of what's been happening in my life and the life of my family.  My grandfather passed away just recently, and all of us feel in some way we are being haunted by him.  I would love to say it was a welcome feeling knowing he could still communicate with us since his passing, but some of the occurances have been rather frightening.  Can you shed any light into what is going on with him, and why these things are happening?

Casey R.

Taya Replied:   Dear Casey,  I feel like your Grandfather is very unsettled about the way he died, and the suddenness.  He has much to say before he leaves, and although I don’t feel he is angry at any of you – he is angry about the situation around his death.  What’s happening is you are picking up on his stress and anxiety, and perceiving it as directed at you.  As you can see from your email – I have outlined each incidence, and broken it down – you’ll notice that each event you explained is a reaction in response to something else.  By not knowing that he is only responding, you can see they aren’t malicious attacks for no apparent reason.  The intense fear you woke up with in your chest when you sensed him moving close to you the other night was what HE was feeling – not what you were feeling.  I also feel your grandfather had mixed feelings about life after death – if you don’t believe there is a light to go into, then you won’t be looking for it, and you will certainly miss signals and cue’s to get there.  He is stuck in limbo, afraid, angry and confused.
I have linked him up to his guides, and he is now in a much better place, peaceful and understanding that all is well, and in his words “as it should be”.
Good luck to you and your family – Taya.

 

 

 

 

Neck injury from a car accident
4 Jan 2008, 11:40

Dear Taya,
I have a neck injury from a car accident that gives me daily pain.  I've been to Chiropractor's galore, but seem to still have so much pain.  Its getting worse as time goes on. Can you do anything for me?

R Bosworth
Ainsfield.

Taya Replied:  After informing R Bosworth that my findings could NEVER replace that of a medical practitioner (see disclaimer).
Dear R Bosworth, I found an imbalnce(on an energy level) in your neck in C3.  Specifically in the protien collagen fibres - these allow for flexibility when the bone is under stress.  The body works very hard to consistently heal and repair itself, but has developed a block in this area, and no healing is getting through.  I have released on the emotion "I feel humiliated".  The most significant stress found was at age 46 around a "work" situation.  There is much more for you to do before this injury is healed, but I recommend going to a reputable accupuncturist.  You're body will respond particularly well to this method of healing and will allow your body to restore its natural balance and healing capabilities.  I wish you all the best and would love to hear how it turns out for you in the future. 

My Cat Percy is very overweight
13 Dec 2007, 23:12

Dear Taya,
My Cat Percy is very overweight.  We have a large family (My husband & I, 3 kids and a  grandparent all under the one roof) – so he seems to get rewarded at every angle.  The vet has helped me work out a special diet which the whole family know about, but his weight isn’t coming down and its been 4 months!   Is there anything you can do? 
P
ercy’s Mum.

Taya replied: Ahh!  It seems Percy has another “family” or “meal ticket” he goes to visit!  He was also quite dehydrated, so I’m guessing he’s on a biscuit diet then??  Make sure he has plenty of water available to him too.  As for the vets diet – well, no matter how well your family stick to it, its not really going to work if he’s getting extra’s somewhere else!  I still think you can expect to wait another 2 -3 months before he really starts to lose it, and that’s IF you can put a stop to his extra food source.  As part of his balance, I’ve boosted his water, nutrition and minerals, and although it should be better now, he still has a VERY slow metabolism.  Also, he’s allergic to carrots! They give him an angry rash.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I’ve been afraid of my boyfriend leaving me for an older woman...
13 Dec 2007, 23:05

Dear Taya, 
I’ve been afraid of my boyfriend leaving me for an older woman (yes that’s right) for some time now.  I’m 23 and my partner of 4 years is in his late thirties.  Our relationship is rocky to say the least, in fact I’m more often unhappy than happy, but there’s something about him, I love him so much and although he makes me crazy with anger – I just can’t live with out him.  He’s said things to me of a similar fashion, so it’s like we’re worlds apart, but there’s something we just can’t deny. I get jealous of the girls in his office.  I’m worried he’ll meet someone that’s more suited to him, and then I’ll be devastated…. 

Aquarius, Qld. 
Taya Replied:  I’m a little confused, as you haven’t specified exactly what you want me to help with? I’d love to get into the reasons of why you’re so drawn together, but I think the most important thing here is you say you’re more unhappy than happy…… is that because the thoughts of him leaving you are so all consuming?  Or because, being with him is great – but not that great?  
You need to make a decision here because, although I know your fear of him leaving is  immense– would it really be such a bad thing if the relationship is fairly destructive anyway?   What about the verbal abuse he fires at you when things don’t go his way?  
After age recessing around the emotion “ I feel Devastated”, it seems you’ve had similar experiences with a female at age 18, and again with another male at 17 years old. The most profound thing that came up in your session was feeling “devastation” at age 3 – which your Mother was going through at the time, and you picked up on it. 
If you can recall, or perhaps even ask her what she was going through at that time, it might help to shed light on how you’re feeling now, and why – I feel they’re really closely linked.
 
I’ve downloaded all that baggage for you – and given you a bit of a protective energy blanket which will give you time to heal over your relationship hurts until youcan make a decision about where its future lies…. 
Good luck Aquarius.

Aquarius replied: Mum lost her Father when I was 3 years old.  He was a hard parent, and she never really made peace with him before he died. 

Thank you for the work you did – I feel heaps better already.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Arny the Maltese/Shitzu - THIS JUST IN..
5 Sep 2007, 11:52

Taya: I have just had an update from N.W. that Arny is in training to be a "companion" animal for the Masonic Home's aged care facility in his area.  As a companion animal, he is allowed up to 4 visits per week where he will spend time with elderly citizens who previously had pets, but can no longer - now that they live at the home.  Though the home doesn't contribute to any of his medical expenses, they will contribute to a grooming routine to ensure hygeine standards are met.  This is a major breakthrough, as the right grooming routine will greatly influence his eczema aswell.  There are a few things he has to accomplish beforehand, but if it all goes ahead, Arny will be happy again very soon!!
Arny has always suffered really bad eczema.
2 Sep 2007, 09:22

Dear Taya,

I have a Maltese / Shitzu cross named Arnold.  Arny has always suffered really bad eczema.  A friend passed on your website details to me for another problem which I’ll talk with you about later, but I thought I’d ask your advice for Arny as it seems to trouble him more lately.  I’d love for him to enjoy a better quality of life.
Sincerely,

N.W.

Taya replied:  Thanks for trying the Dear Taya service out.  I’d love to help you both out.
Arnold is a bit of a basket isn’t he?  I’m not sure if this is true or not (as animals have a way of seeing things through their eyes only) but Arny feels as though he spends a lot of time on his own – too much in fact.  You may be like most of us, who leave their companions on their own whilst at work.  However long he does spend on his own – according to Arny it’s just way too long.  In his time alone, he scratches –  more like tears himself apart actually and I can see some of his bad spots are actually more like wounds, which he then concentrates all his efforts on licking.  He is in a perpetual cycle of being surrounded by, or not being able to escape his circumstances – which causes his destructive behavior resulting in the wounds, which he reacts to by going over and over (the licking) which leads to feeling like he can’t escape his circumstances, which causes the destructive behavior…… you get the picture.  I feel as though you have a lovely bond.  There is another family member or person who used to be in his life more frequently, but not so much now – and their absence is not helping. Poor old Arny!  It may not seem so bad to you, or perhaps be as drastic as he’s making out, but in his world it’s pretty desperate.  You need to come up with a brighter solution.  As he feels older, I don’t think he’d welcome a playmate.  He would ideally suit an elderly companion – is there anyone who you can think of? Perhaps there is an elderly neighbor or friend you could leave him with while you’re away, that would also appreciate some company – without all the responsibilities of having a pet.  I’ve done some work to relieve him and attached a list of some allergies/sensitivities that really set his eczema off.  

N.W. Replied: Oh no!  I had no idea he was so blue since my daughter left for Uni.  There really is no-one else who could take him.  He’s a lovely pet and I would hate to have to let him go, but if you think he would be happier, maybe I should look at finding him another home.

Taya replied: I’d recommend re-homing him as a last resort, because I really feel there is a better solution for all.  Don’t be shy about putting an ad in the local paper – there’s someone out there who’s looking for exactly the situation you have to offer, you just need to trust that you’ll be brought together….  Keep me posted!

I have major money drama's
2 Sep 2007, 09:17

Dear Taya,

I'm hoping you may be able to help me with something I've been grappling with for years.  I have major money drama's.  I've been seeing an NLP practitioner, with some great results, but am still really struggling with it all.  We seem to have hit a slump and I'm not progressing any further.  My NLP Practitioner suggested I get in touch with you- (you went through the same NLP training college).  I'm hoping that because you'll have a strong understanding of the work we've already done with NLP, and your talents for finding the root cause - perhaps with Kinesiology, I can uncover my missing link. 
- Josephine (Ballerat. Vic)
AUSTRALIA

Taya replied:  After reading your attached notes I can see why you've had such a hard time, but I can also see how amazingly well you are doing... One of your major set backs is not stopping to smell the roses, or congratulating yourself for how far you've come.  It’s time to turn over a new leaf Josephine.  You have come so far!!  Also, the goal that you've clearly defined in your notes is one thing.... but it's not your heart's desire is it?  There's something else lurking in there and it's got nothing to do with schooling... Your treatment suggests that you're striving to achieve something that doesn't really resonate with you.  NLP relies on using your unconscious mind to provide answers, but I've found that there's a bit of sabotage going on, as your muscle indicates a different story...  Tell me a story about Travel??  You've set a really big goal around schooling, and are working hard to achieve the financials to support a new education, but if I'm right, and your heart really desires something else, for e.g. the freedom of exploring etc.  then there's no way your unconscious mind will allow you to knuckle down, strapped to a desk for the next 4 years - committed to slogging it out - ESPECIALLY if you’re the type who doesn’t easily appreciate your own efforts or allow yourself to feel each win, as you pass your exams!! 
I've released on the stress this has been causing you, and also the stress around studying.  I've also done a program change on you, so that you'll be more able to enjoy your successes, instead of just moving on to the next issue or task that needs dealing with. Josephine, you have the world at your feet, and have so much to offer and also gain.  My wish for you is that you find harmony in both your goals - and the ability to enjoy them to your hearts content...  I think you’re in for a real treat!


Josephine replied:  You are remarkable!!  I have taken your advice and booked a short weekend away just to think about things.  I've booked a One-on-One treatment with you for after I get back.  Taya, you've been more helpful to me than you know. 

"...he’ll just start to bark and jump about in an excited fit.."
10 Jul 2007, 10:00

Dear Taya,

Just a quickie to say thank you so much for all the wonderful help you’ve given my family and me in dealing with the death of our Nan. You offer your tender advice and incredible gifts, so often with out any request for payment and just out of the goodness of your heart - yet I haven’t known you for long or been in often for healings - proving you’re genuine in your plight to help others. Taya, since Nan has passed, her cattle dog Old Blue has been unsettled.  We were sure that he would have a tough time, but his behavior is actually rather weird.  He’s taken to sleeping in the doorway and for no reason at all he’ll just start to bark and jump about in an excited fit.  These incidents are not provoked by anything we’re doing – (he’s usually undisturbed when it happens).  It takes him ages to calm down afterwards, and then he grimaces and whines until he falls asleep.  Is there anything you can do?
- Janis Czechlowski.

Taya Wrote: Thank you for your kind words…
Poor Old Blue is having a tough time. Nan is still very much around checking that everyone is ok before she crosses over.  When Old Blue senses this – he gets very excited, but has no idea how to react.  Nan had a rather unusual way of patting him (never on the head) and a little rough.  I suggest you pat him in the same way when he displays this again, and perhaps greet Nan in a way that you normally would have on entering her house.  He stays in the door way because he’s half expecting her to come over and collect him.  This is not a bad thing, as perhaps you can teach him to guard the door – so he’ll have another job to concentrate on.  It’s important too, to do rewarding activities with him that Nan never did.  This way he’ll learn to embrace change as a good thing.  I don’t think she took him for walks often, or to the beach – so a daily walk with one person consistently, or a trip to the beach with the family may give him something else to look forward to. I’ve done some work to release the stress he’s under which should take effect within 5 days. Blessings to all of you..

Janis replied: Thanks Taya, I’ll give that all a try. 

I've had enough of this grief and feeding my void.
1 Jul 2007, 09:00

Dear Taya,

I would like your help in releasing this enormous hold on my body weight. I've achieved a great weight-loss in the past but this time around it is much harder to be motivated. I'm definitely holding onto it for numerous reasons. I have been heavier since early adult-hood. It is definitely a protection against hurt & fears. When I finally reached a slimmer size I was open to a relationship where I had 5 cherished months with my love. It was not to be long lasting, as his depression told hold of his mind and the resulted in the finality of his life. I need help in healing and releasing. It's been almost 2 years since he passed and yes I still laugh and am not entirely miserable (we had a great love), but I've had enough of this grief and feeding my void.
I hope you can help me.
Kind regards,
Laurell

Taya Wrote: As I explained weight can be tricky. I usually suggest a course of One-on-One balances to work through it, as there can be so many underlying issues maintaining ideal weight. You were kind of in an emotional quandary though and I was happy to download all those emotions you specifically outlined - knowing that this alone could make life better in some form. You had so much emotion to release. But about your weight:
Laurell you were way out of balance! After downloading your emotions and doing some housekeeping on your physical body - (See notes) I was also able to find you have an inbuilt sabotage on "sharing". Sabotages are put in place by our subconscious mind as a measure of protecting itself from further hurt/trauma etc. Locking in the sabotage was a stress on feeling "vivacious". Your body also gave us an affirmation to correct that would really make a difference to your underlying issues. It was "It's ok for me to have deeper access when in a relationship." (Not your generic kind of affirmation - so I'm guessing you're not an average/generic kinda girl). You definitely use weight to form a protective layer around you - to buffet you from attention, unfortunately this was in action for both good and bad attention. I felt like I wanted to hide. Another affirmation that came up was "I Laurell, am 100% successful & prosperous now & always"- so I'm not sure if you have issues with your job/career too and if this somehow relates? The physical re-balancing I've done, coupled with sabotage correction, emotional release & the mini zap I've given your metabolism - may give you the results you're looking for. If not I'd be happy to work through a program of One-on-One's with you. I wish you good luck - but mostly I hope you find something new in life to be truly happy about; you really deserve it after all you've been through.

Oh Gosh I hope you can help with my dog
1 Jul 2007, 09:00

Dear Taya,

 Oh Gosh I hope you can help with my dog "Shaggy".   He's a rescue pup from the RSPCA. I've had him for 3months and he's 9months old.  The problem is his skin - he has really bad eczema.  I use the medicated shampoo on him and follow the vet's advice to the letter -which normally alleviates it, but lately he's tearing holes in himself!! Please can you help as I HATE leaving him at home when I go to work - could that be the problem??
Anxious,
Nella x

 Taya Wrote:  The shampoo helps, but he's building up immunity to it - so it's not as effective.  However, there are two things I think are causing major dramas, so I just have to ask "Have you changed his flea treatment to a different brand?" (Something’s changed there) and "Have you got a new boyfriend?”  There's a sensitivity/allergy to the flea treatment which is making him itchy, and a boyfriend situation that is getting under his skin...  I've done a balance on both - you should notice a difference in him within 48 hours, however if it was a monthly flea treatment, it may play up a bit until it's completely out of his system.

Nella replied:  Umm, haven't changed flea brands, but wait I have changed the dosage as he's bigger now. I can't believe this - My boyfriend Steve has started to stay over a few nights a week now - he used to just stay over on Friday or Saturday night - I'm surprised Shaggy isn't happy about it - I thought he loved Steve, after all - it was Steve who bought Shaggy for me!!  Will let you know how it goes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

They're Getting worse as time goes on -
4 Jun 2007, 13:58

Dear Taya,
Can you help with my Migraines?  They're getting worse as time goes on - I remember having headaches as a young woman, but in the last 5 years or so they've become more frequent and more painful than ever... I'd appreciate ANY help you can give...
- RJ QLD

(After establishing that 'RJ QLD' has had her symptoms thoroughly checked out by a medical practitioner) -
Taya Wrote - Thanks for answering my extra questions.  The most significant information I found was that this all began after the birth of your first child.  I've released on the emotions of "Fright" and "terror"  Pretty strong emotions to be carrying around.  I also picked up a suppression of chemical toxins around the birth so I'm going to go out on a limb and say you probably had an epidural?  When your body's cycle re-established itself after that (in your case around 7months later) - your hormone's really set in a pattern of reaction from the resulting epidural.  Epi's are renown for their side effects, but usually headaches only persist as a result for about 2-3years.  It's been 7 years for you.  Similar responses of "Fright & Terror"  were experienced at ages 33 & 35 (even if they weren't really big drama's) which have made things worse.  I've released on this for you, and have also done some work to stimulate elimination to help release leftover anesthesia still in your system. I have also suggested in your full report to consider on-going treatment/balances -  otherwise, I would love to hear how you go...

 RJ Replied - Yes, I did have an epidural - 2 in fact, as the first one failed.  I never associated the migraines with this, as they didn't appear until well after the event, so 7 months could be right.  I can't belive my Dr didn't pick it up! Thanks for what you've done. 

He bites us viciously, is grooming himself excessively...
10 May 2007, 23:48

Dear Taya,
We have a pet cockatiel named Joe.  We moved house 4 weeks ago, and he’s obviously still unsettled by it all. He has been a fabulous companion for the last 18 months, but since the move, has been acting very out of character.  He bites us viciously, is grooming himself excessively and has days where he won’t come out of his hidey hole in his cage at all.
Can you help? – Wendy & Pete.

Taya wrote – I don’t actually feel that it’s the move that’s creating this unsettling behaviour.  His treatment shows he’s actually not a he but a she, and she’s not so much moody, but broody.  Check out your local pet shop for some tips on what to do – I think they even make little fake eggs for lonely gals like Jo.  I’ve done a balance to try and take the edge off it – let me know how you go…

They replied – Thanks, we’re having a coming out party for her this weekend….
I have a boyfriend that I just can’t wash out of my hair
10 May 2007, 23:45

Dear Taya,
I have a boyfriend that I just can’t wash out of my hair.   We broke up 1 year ago, and neither of us keep company with our old circle of friends.  I’ve surrounded myself with great, positive new friends, but I still just can’t stop thinking about him.  It was a mutual break up, I can see the faults in the relationship now and was as adamant then, as I am now, that I made the right decision, yet still, I can’t get him out of my head!!!  I have seen him a couple of times since and we’ve shared a quiet hello – and I don’t go gooey when I’m with him, but when I’m away from him, I feel plenty.  Is there anything you can do for me? – Becca  Qld.

Taya wrote – Ok, after putting you in circuit, It became obvious this isn’t the first time is it?  Either you’ve broken up, had withdrawal symptoms, and gotten back together before, or you’ve been through this scenario with someone else…  From the information that’s coming up on the scan sheets – it feels like you weren’t in love with him, but more the idea of being in love with him – I hope I haven’t just insulted you- But the good news is, I think I’ve found your trigger…. It’s in his cologne…. It’s a well known fact that music/sounds and scents can conjure up deep feelings inside of us and I think this is what’s happening here.  I’ve released on his “fragrance” and that alone released quite a load.  You also have a limiting belief pattern around being alone that was not helping – If you need clarification on this let me know….  At any rate, things should improve for you once you start to feel the benefits of your correction.  I give it a week or so.

Becca replied – Oh gosh, I’d forgotten about that, yes there’s a bit more of a history.  I spent most of my time day dreaming about him for 2 months before we were finally introduced.  And yes he always smelt VERY nice!
I’ve got a huge fear of spiders!
10 May 2007, 23:43

Dear Taya,
I’ve got a huge fear of spiders!  It’s not such a big deal at home as I get the fumigators in regularly, but it’s now a concern for me lately as my family is planning a camping trip in the mountains, and friends who’ve camped in the area before came back with some wild stories of spiders the size of their hands – and had the pictures to prove it. I really want to go as my sons have never been so excited about a trip,  and I desperately want to share the experience with them. Can you maybe talk to the spiders where we’re going and tell them to give me a 1km radius?  I’d really appreciate your assistance in this…. The trip is in August and I’m 38 years old.
-    Marie, North Qld.

Taya wrote - Wouldn’t it be easier to just work on your fear of spiders?  If we can work out when your earliest memory of arachnophobia was, we can probably let most of the fear go –and if we don’t delete the fear all together, then we should at least be able to get to the point where they don’t terrify you any more.  After putting you into circuit, I’ve found that it’s mostly about large brown spiders – probably like the “Huntsman” that lives on my verandah.  Other information involves a bicycle? The emotion we’re releasing on is “ victimized”  and the main incidents were at ages 8 and 9 years old.  At age 8 the emotion was in reaction to a “situation”, and at age 9 the emotion was felt in reaction to a male family member.    While releasing on this emotion for you I felt a constriction across my chest area, and I kept wanting to stand on my tippy toes – I’m guessing this is representative of how you feel/act when you see a spider…. I released on this also, though I’m sure this is a reflex action we ALL share really…anyway, see how you go.   Probably best to test it out at the museum first…..

Marie replied – Oh my gosh!  My first spider reaction was when one lept onto my head after I went to put my bike helmet on.  I’ll never forget the feeling of it crawling through my hair.  When I was around 9 or 10, my Pop tried to cure my phobia of spiders by making me handle one – It just made it worse, and yes I felt victimized!  Thank you for your help – I’m off to the museum to try it out this weekend!


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