Dear Taya,
I'm writing in the hope that you can shed some light on my own personal hell. I feel like I'm drowning and everyone around me is just watching. Last year my husband had a 6 month affair with his personal assistant. She still works with him in that role and they have to go to company dinners and functions as part of their work. It drives me crazy. My husband says that it's over, but you only have to be in the same room as them no notice how much they are wanting to be together. They stand there undressing eachother with their eyes as if no one else can see what's going on, but that's exactly it - EVERYONE can see what's going on. I feel so embarrassed and so angry that he could do this to me and continue to do this to me. We once had a special relationship, but now all we do is fight, and it all comes back down to the fact that he had an affair. He says if I can't get over it, then we'll never move on. But how can i forgive him for this? And how can I possibly ever feel good with him again knowing he'd rather be with her than me?
Raelene Birsch.
Taya replied: Dear Raelene, Hmm - a tough situation for everyone to be in. Your pain is clear, he sounds tormented, and his PA would certainly be finding it hard to deal with the fact she has/had feelings for 1. her boss, 2. a maried man and 3. a man who chose someone else. After tappiing in, I've found that this stress for you is all fairly recent - meaning its not all tied in to feelings of abandonement from age 5, or a grief episode that occurred in high school. So with that in mind, lets unravel this current stress.
I am in no way taking sides, or approving of anyone's behaviour here, but lets address how you're feeling. You indicate you want to be free of your pain around the situation. So lets begin. After muscle testing your stresses - the hardest thing about it is "how can I possibly ever feel good with him again knowing he'd rather be with her than me?". Raelene is that a reality? or an illusion? What I'm saying is - Is that comment true? You say its obvious when they are together, but the thing is- he's WITH you. He chose you. That's obvious to everyone also. He could have continued to be with her, but the reality is - He's WITH you. So at some stage - he chose you. If he would rather be with her, he would be. But he comes home to you every night. What emotional feelings do you have when you believe this illusion? Hurt, embarrassed and resentful all muscle test for you. What is your behaviour like towards him and others when you are living this illusion? You're cruel and short tempered. So if he didn't really love you, why would he choose you, and then choose to put up with you? He must adore you!!
If you didn't believe this illusion, what would your life be like? Could it be that the stress is just this illusion that you are living, and if you chose to live the reality instead, you would indeed be free of all these feelings? I have released on Hurt, embarrassed and resentful for you, and you will begin to feel some relief from this in a few hours. However, for you the question is not "how can he do this to me?" rather, "how can I do this to me?" and to your relationship. Remember, you chose to stay too.
Raelene replied: I never thought of it like that, but you're right. Even when I'm completely horrible, he still loves me. I kept going over and over in my mind how badly he behaved, but then I realised it was me that behaved badly. It was me that left him to begin with. I had become so consumed in my work and my social life with the girls, that I had betrayed him long before he betrayed me. I was just as much to blame as he was. After being open and honest with him, something amazing happened. I was expecting an arguement, or for him to just brush me off, but we sat there in eachothers arms sobbing, and then remembering just how special we were. We have both organized time off work and are going on a much needed holiday. We still have a long ways to go, but at least we are both moving in the same direction - Towards eachother!
Dear Taya,
Am really hoping you can be some help to me and my family. My sons and I are having problems with abdominal bloating. We have seen many doctors and naturopaths etc. to help alleviate this. The naturopaths were convinced we had intolerances to gluten and the like. The doctors have been testing us for other things medically based, but have not been abe to provide answers either. It started about 6 months ago when we returned to Germany. We had been living symptom free with no problems of any nature in beautiful Switzerland. My husband has returned us here for his work. We are adjusting well, all but the stomach bloating. I was wondering if you maybe could share any insight?
Roberta J.
Taya replied: I was about to send a detailed email back to Roberta asking specific questions about the situation around the bloating and the moving - but I follwed my gut and sent this instead :- Dear Roberta, this is going to sound crazy... but tell me about your water? There's something weird going on with you lot around water. Was there bloating when you first moved to Germany or left Switzerland? There seems to be something tied in to the move, but not directly relating to it. Could it be as simple as the bloating is caused from the change of water compared to what your bodies were used to in Switzerland? I'm sure there was a delayed effect though. You have all tested for higher levels of metals than your bodies can handle. I have done corrections on you for this to further enhance your bodies natural ability to eliminate toxicity. I think it is these higher levels of metals that is causing the bloating as that is what is coming up - but it just seems too far fetched. Surprisingly, your husband doesn't have as high levels - which leads me to the question - is he as exposed to the same water as you? Have corrected as much as I can - would love some feedback!
Roberta replied: Shortly after we moved to Switzerland, the pipes in our neighbourhood block burst. The men came to fix, and because we were not there (my mother and her sisters stayed in our apartment) they did some patching around it. We have been living with temporary measures which works well, until they do more work to the whole street. There was a very big problem with all this and apparently the whole street flooded and was with out clean water for 3 days. When we return, we had no bloating, but we noticed the water tasted a little different, but we thought it was because water in Switzerland was different tasting to. I'm not sure why we have the bloating and others do not, this does not make sense to me, but i feel much better since I emailed you, and have noticed the bloating is better and for my sons too. My husband is at work away from home, so doesn't drink the water as much. He also likes the beer Taya, so is drinking that. My Mother complained of diarrhea after we moved, am not sure if the sisters too and if it was when the pipes burst. Maybe this was all the same thing.
Dear Taya,
I loved the blog you recently did for Jackie about the food – can you let us know a bit more. I was so interested to hear about the emotional reasons we eat. It just made sense. I’m trying to lose weight at the moment. I have tried the shakes and weight watchers. I need to lose 12 kg’s. Can you say other ways of looking at this? Have you got any other tips for dieter’s?
Taya Replied: Dear Dieter, Weight is always different for everyone, and what works for one, doesn’t always work for others. However, the foundation of my weight loss program looks at a few things. Firstly the past: “Food” is about nourishment, “extra weight” is about protection and “underweight” is about vulnerability. Looking at your past – have any of the aforementioned (nourishment, protection & vulnerability) been issues for you? (Doesn't have to be around food specifically - but if you have protection issues, you can usually bet you've stacked on the weight). If so, then depending on the degree of stress, you may need to get some professional help in releasing on this. The next step is the present. Louise Hay says that the point of power is always in the present moment. That’s where the emotional gain’s from eating come in – or resisiting urges etc. Next is the Future. What will you have when you are 12kg’s lighter? Who will you be? How will you behave? What will it give you? You want these wonderful things to be where your focus is all the time – especially when eating, preparing and shopping for food. Also instead of focusing on hunger ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS focus on how full you are! Not on how hungry you are, or what you're not allowed to eat etc. Gage how full you are on a scale of 1 – 10. Think about it, if you can shift your awareness to how full you are 24/7 – you will never actually be hungry again (if you are as low as 1 on the scale you are not hungry - just “not very” full) and you’ll be much less likely to binge or break your eating plan. Hope this helps.
Dear Taya,
You may not remember me. We met at the bowls club that day with your phone. You came up to me and gave me the most beautiful compliment on my hair. You said I my highlights looked amazing as the sun caught them on the green. I was blown away that a perfect stranger could appear to me out of nowhere and say just what I needed to hear. I’m grateful I remembered your name (it was so different) and was able to get in touch with you. I just had to find you and tell you the importance of that day. You see, my Husband the day before had just told me he was no longer in love with me and was leaving me. We had clearly grown apart (though I wouldn’t admit it at the time) but I still thought he loved me. I was devastated. We were at the club with friends celebrating a birthday with our usual crowd. My gal pals were well aware of the situation, and I thought they would rally around me with support, letting me know they were there for me. Imagine my surprise when they announced I had no one to blame but myself, and that it was up to me to keep things interesting to my partner, and they commented on my appearance. Although they assured me I looked “fine”, I suddenly started to doubt myself and think that there was nothing special about me, and that he was always out of my league anyway. I had spent a good 2 years out of my twenties learning to love myself as I am, and was just about to let myself slip back into my old ways of thinking – and you waltzed up to me and said just what I needed to hear. I felt as though God had sent you himself! When looking at your web page – it was obvious he had! I’m so glad to have the opportunity to say thank you and what it meant to me that day. I went home and stood up to my husband and told him he had made a mistake, and I was worth noticing again! The two of us are going to counseling with our church group and are slowly making progress. I don’t think this could have happened without divine intervention that day.
Carolese Vanderbuilt.
Taya Replied: Dear Carolese, Wow I remember that! I actually had the overwhelming feeling to hug you that day, after our little chat. Your hair really was amazing and honestly, to me you were glowing! I never know why I am compelled to do these things, and I walk away from so many feeling like a complete wally, but I’ve learnt to trust and react straight away – otherwise they just make me go back and do it anyway! The ripple effect always amazes me and I subscribe to the thought that we are in fact “all one” connected and in tune with eachother. I love the moments when I am in sinc enough to be part of those big changes with others – though I rarely seem to get the other half of the story! I am humbled by the work the universe does and the beautiful way in which they choose to do it. Thanks for sharing, you’ve made my day!
Dear Taya,
Can you please help with my food cravings? That thing you did one time was amazing and lasted ages. Can you do it again? I’ve put on HEAPS of weight (doctor says I need to lose 20kg’s) and can’t seem to get back my motivation to go to the gym anymore, even though I used to LOVE it!
HELP TAYA!
Jackie T. QLD.
Taya Replied: Hello Again, glad I could help last time. I think I did a correction on what my Kinergetics Instructor used to call “The Lollie Muscle”. It relates to the adrenals which when out of balance give us sugar cravings. I have corrected this for you again and we can do also do a change from a “like to a dis-like” for the chocolate addiction you mentioned, though if this is a recurring problem for you, it could use some more work. Seeing as your weight has ballooned, let’s go a bit deeper. Chocolate is known to have an anti depressant effect as its said to cause a serotonin release. This is not my area of expertise – so I’ll leave it at that. Why are you reaching for chocolate? What are you trying to escape from? When you have a craving, even though you know its not good for you, what pushes you over the edge and lets you have it anyway? Your emotions are taking over and somewhere along the line you learnt that food would give you something, we call this an emotional benefit. Assess how you feel in the moments before you just HAVE to eat some, then observe what emotion you think the chocolate is going to “give” you. It’s a piece of food and is incapable of ‘giving” you a feeling. What happens is your body has the chocolate/food, and then gives you permission to feel that certain way. Work out in each moment what you want to feel anyway – and then give your self permission to feel it anyway – or alternatively, look for another healthy way of receiving it. For eg. If you’re bored, get busy. If you’re lonely – call a friend or go out somewhere there is lots of people. The more closely you look into each situation – the more success you’re going to have, and better still, you’re unconscious mind will lock in new healthy ways of behaving that illicit those emotions and will work with you to achieve it, rather than working against you all the time. Good luck and enjoy discovering why it’s happening.
Jackie Replied: Thank you again Taya – you’re a magician. The other more ‘personal’ things you sent thru have really struck a chord too. Will keep in touch. PS That sugar thing you do is amazing!!!
Dear Taya,
I have recently moved interstate and am worried I’ll never connect with anyone. When I left
Nic, ACT.
Taya Replied: Dear Nic, Great to hear you’re looking at finding more happiness in your life – There’s always room for more. Instead of foreseeing what is out there for you, let’s look at what thinking got you to where you are –(hope that makes sense). This is all about Law of attraction stuff. Before you moved, you “put it out there” you could have a better job, there were parts of your then job you thought could be improved. “Hmm” Nic thought, “there must be more to this”. This was also reflective of your social life at the time, I feel like friends were moving on around you at the time, and you decided you were ready to let go of that, and invite something new in. I’ve released on feelings of “I feel somber” ??? – they go back to approx 2 years ago. You did a great job of working out exactly what you wanted – the universe heard your requests and went in to action. You put all your energy into creating these changes, but then, when they happened – there was nothing left to attract. I recommend always having a goal to follow on to. Otherwise, once we achieve what we’re aiming for – there is ALWAYS a feeling of emptiness when we’ve achieved it. So what’s next? I’ve taken your list of grievances about things as they are and turned them around for you. Start working out what it is you WANT from life again, and reclaim that motivation you had to make it happen (remember, before you left Sydney?) You’ve already proved you can do it!!
Nic Replied: Yes!! I was unstoppable before I left, and your right – I just expected things to fall into place for me, but had NO idea what that would be. I’ll work at the new affirmations you’ve written for me, and start thinking about what I really want again. My boyfriend and I broke up 2 years ago. It wasn’t the love of the century, and I wasn’t heartbroken or anything, but I realized our friends were really his, and the friends I’d ditched the friends I had before we met – so you are absolutely right, they had moved on. Thanks for your help, I feel I can take it from here. It takes a special person to do what you do.
Dear Taya,
I'm writing in the hope you can make sense of what's been happening in my life and the life of my family. My grandfather passed away just recently, and all of us feel in some way we are being haunted by him. I would love to say it was a welcome feeling knowing he could still communicate with us since his passing, but some of the occurances have been rather frightening. Can you shed any light into what is going on with him, and why these things are happening?
Casey R.
Taya Replied: Dear Casey, I feel like your Grandfather is very unsettled about the way he died, and the suddenness. He has much to say before he leaves, and although I don’t feel he is angry at any of you – he is angry about the situation around his death. What’s happening is you are picking up on his stress and anxiety, and perceiving it as directed at you. As you can see from your email – I have outlined each incidence, and broken it down – you’ll notice that each event you explained is a reaction in response to something else. By not knowing that he is only responding, you can see they aren’t malicious attacks for no apparent reason. The intense fear you woke up with in your chest when you sensed him moving close to you the other night was what HE was feeling – not what you were feeling. I also feel your grandfather had mixed feelings about life after death – if you don’t believe there is a light to go into, then you won’t be looking for it, and you will certainly miss signals and cue’s to get there. He is stuck in limbo, afraid, angry and confused.
I have linked him up to his guides, and he is now in a much better place, peaceful and understanding that all is well, and in his words “as it should be”.
Good luck to you and your family – Taya.
Dear Taya,
I have a neck injury from a car accident that gives me daily pain. I've been to Chiropractor's galore, but seem to still have so much pain. Its getting worse as time goes on. Can you do anything for me?
R Bosworth
Ainsfield.
Taya Replied: After informing R Bosworth that my findings could NEVER replace that of a medical practitioner (see disclaimer).
Dear R Bosworth, I found an imbalnce(on an energy level) in your neck in C3. Specifically in the protien collagen fibres - these allow for flexibility when the bone is under stress. The body works very hard to consistently heal and repair itself, but has developed a block in this area, and no healing is getting through. I have released on the emotion "I feel humiliated". The most significant stress found was at age 46 around a "work" situation. There is much more for you to do before this injury is healed, but I recommend going to a reputable accupuncturist. You're body will respond particularly well to this method of healing and will allow your body to restore its natural balance and healing capabilities. I wish you all the best and would love to hear how it turns out for you in the future.
Dear Taya,
My Cat Percy is very overweight. We have a large family (My husband & I, 3 kids and a grandparent all under the one roof) – so he seems to get rewarded at every angle. The vet has helped me work out a special diet which the whole family know about, but his weight isn’t coming down and its been 4 months! Is there anything you can do?
Percy’s Mum.
Taya replied: Ahh! It seems Percy has another “family” or “meal ticket” he goes to visit! He was also quite dehydrated, so I’m guessing he’s on a biscuit diet then?? Make sure he has plenty of water available to him too. As for the vets diet – well, no matter how well your family stick to it, its not really going to work if he’s getting extra’s somewhere else! I still think you can expect to wait another 2 -3 months before he really starts to lose it, and that’s IF you can put a stop to his extra food source. As part of his balance, I’ve boosted his water, nutrition and minerals, and although it should be better now, he still has a VERY slow metabolism. Also, he’s allergic to carrots! They give him an angry rash.
Dear Taya,
I’ve been afraid of my boyfriend leaving me for an older woman (yes that’s right) for some time now. I’m 23 and my partner of 4 years is in his late thirties. Our relationship is rocky to say the least, in fact I’m more often unhappy than happy, but there’s something about him, I love him so much and although he makes me crazy with anger – I just can’t live with out him. He’s said things to me of a similar fashion, so it’s like we’re worlds apart, but there’s something we just can’t deny. I get jealous of the girls in his office. I’m worried he’ll meet someone that’s more suited to him, and then I’ll be devastated….
Aquarius, Qld.
Taya Replied: I’m a little confused, as you haven’t specified exactly what you want me to help with? I’d love to get into the reasons of why you’re so drawn together, but I think the most important thing here is you say you’re more unhappy than happy…… is that because the thoughts of him leaving you are so all consuming? Or because, being with him is great – but not that great?
You need to make a decision here because, although I know your fear of him leaving is immense– would it really be such a bad thing if the relationship is fairly destructive anyway? What about the verbal abuse he fires at you when things don’t go his way?
After age recessing around the emotion “ I feel Devastated”, it seems you’ve had similar experiences with a female at age 18, and again with another male at 17 years old. The most profound thing that came up in your session was feeling “devastation” at age 3 – which your Mother was going through at the time, and you picked up on it.
If you can recall, or perhaps even ask her what she was going through at that time, it might help to shed light on how you’re feeling now, and why – I feel they’re really closely linked.
I’ve downloaded all that baggage for you – and given you a bit of a protective energy blanket which will give you time to heal over your relationship hurts until youcan make a decision about where its future lies…. Good luck Aquarius.
Aquarius replied: Mum lost her Father when I was 3 years old. He was a hard parent, and she never really made peace with him before he died.
Thank you for the work you did – I feel heaps better already.
Dear Taya,
I have a Maltese / Shitzu cross named Arnold. Arny has always suffered really bad eczema. A friend passed on your website details to me for another problem which I’ll talk with you about later, but I thought I’d ask your advice for Arny as it seems to trouble him more lately. I’d love for him to enjoy a better quality of life.
Sincerely,
N.W.
Taya replied: Thanks for trying the Dear Taya service out. I’d love to help you both out.
Arnold is a bit of a basket isn’t he? I’m not sure if this is true or not (as animals have a way of seeing things through their eyes only) but Arny feels as though he spends a lot of time on his own – too much in fact. You may be like most of us, who leave their companions on their own whilst at work. However long he does spend on his own – according to Arny it’s just way too long. In his time alone, he scratches – more like tears himself apart actually and I can see some of his bad spots are actually more like wounds, which he then concentrates all his efforts on licking. He is in a perpetual cycle of being surrounded by, or not being able to escape his circumstances – which causes his destructive behavior resulting in the wounds, which he reacts to by going over and over (the licking) which leads to feeling like he can’t escape his circumstances, which causes the destructive behavior…… you get the picture. I feel as though you have a lovely bond. There is another family member or person who used to be in his life more frequently, but not so much now – and their absence is not helping. Poor old Arny! It may not seem so bad to you, or perhaps be as drastic as he’s making out, but in his world it’s pretty desperate. You need to come up with a brighter solution. As he feels older, I don’t think he’d welcome a playmate. He would ideally suit an elderly companion – is there anyone who you can think of? Perhaps there is an elderly neighbor or friend you could leave him with while you’re away, that would also appreciate some company – without all the responsibilities of having a pet. I’ve done some work to relieve him and attached a list of some allergies/sensitivities that really set his eczema off.
N.W. Replied: Oh no! I had no idea he was so blue since my daughter left for Uni. There really is no-one else who could take him. He’s a lovely pet and I would hate to have to let him go, but if you think he would be happier, maybe I should look at finding him another home.
Taya replied: I’d recommend re-homing him as a last resort, because I really feel there is a better solution for all. Don’t be shy about putting an ad in the local paper – there’s someone out there who’s looking for exactly the situation you have to offer, you just need to trust that you’ll be brought together…. Keep me posted!
Dear Taya,
I'm hoping you may be able to help me with something I've been grappling with for years. I have major money drama's. I've been seeing an NLP practitioner, with some great results, but am still really struggling with it all. We seem to have hit a slump and I'm not progressing any further. My NLP Practitioner suggested I get in touch with you- (you went through the same NLP training college). I'm hoping that because you'll have a strong understanding of the work we've already done with NLP, and your talents for finding the root cause - perhaps with Kinesiology, I can uncover my missing link.
- Josephine (Ballerat. Vic)
AUSTRALIA
Taya replied: After reading your attached notes I can see why you've had such a hard time, but I can also see how amazingly well you are doing... One of your major set backs is not stopping to smell the roses, or congratulating yourself for how far you've come. It’s time to turn over a new leaf Josephine. You have come so far!! Also, the goal that you've clearly defined in your notes is one thing.... but it's not your heart's desire is it? There's something else lurking in there and it's got nothing to do with schooling... Your treatment suggests that you're striving to achieve something that doesn't really resonate with you. NLP relies on using your unconscious mind to provide answers, but I've found that there's a bit of sabotage going on, as your muscle indicates a different story... Tell me a story about Travel?? You've set a really big goal around schooling, and are working hard to achieve the financials to support a new education, but if I'm right, and your heart really desires something else, for e.g. the freedom of exploring etc. then there's no way your unconscious mind will allow you to knuckle down, strapped to a desk for the next 4 years - committed to slogging it out - ESPECIALLY if you’re the type who doesn’t easily appreciate your own efforts or allow yourself to feel each win, as you pass your exams!!
I've released on the stress this has been causing you, and also the stress around studying. I've also done a program change on you, so that you'll be more able to enjoy your successes, instead of just moving on to the next issue or task that needs dealing with. Josephine, you have the world at your feet, and have so much to offer and also gain. My wish for you is that you find harmony in both your goals - and the ability to enjoy them to your hearts content... I think you’re in for a real treat!
Josephine replied: You are remarkable!! I have taken your advice and booked a short weekend away just to think about things. I've booked a One-on-One treatment with you for after I get back. Taya, you've been more helpful to me than you know.
Dear Taya,
Just a quickie to say thank you so much for all the wonderful help you’ve given my family and me in dealing with the death of our Nan. You offer your tender advice and incredible gifts, so often with out any request for payment and just out of the goodness of your heart - yet I haven’t known you for long or been in often for healings - proving you’re genuine in your plight to help others. Taya, since Nan has passed, her cattle dog Old Blue has been unsettled. We were sure that he would have a tough time, but his behavior is actually rather weird. He’s taken to sleeping in the doorway and for no reason at all he’ll just start to bark and jump about in an excited fit. These incidents are not provoked by anything we’re doing – (he’s usually undisturbed when it happens). It takes him ages to calm down afterwards, and then he grimaces and whines until he falls asleep. Is there anything you can do?
- Janis Czechlowski.
Taya Wrote: Thank you for your kind words…
Poor Old Blue is having a tough time. Nan is still very much around checking that everyone is ok before she crosses over. When Old Blue senses this – he gets very excited, but has no idea how to react. Nan had a rather unusual way of patting him (never on the head) and a little rough. I suggest you pat him in the same way when he displays this again, and perhaps greet Nan in a way that you normally would have on entering her house. He stays in the door way because he’s half expecting her to come over and collect him. This is not a bad thing, as perhaps you can teach him to guard the door – so he’ll have another job to concentrate on. It’s important too, to do rewarding activities with him that Nan never did. This way he’ll learn to embrace change as a good thing. I don’t think she took him for walks often, or to the beach – so a daily walk with one person consistently, or a trip to the beach with the family may give him something else to look forward to. I’ve done some work to release the stress he’s under which should take effect within 5 days. Blessings to all of you..
Janis replied: Thanks Taya, I’ll give that all a try.
Dear Taya,
I would like your help in releasing this enormous hold on my body weight. I've achieved a great weight-loss in the past but this time around it is much harder to be motivated. I'm definitely holding onto it for numerous reasons. I have been heavier since early adult-hood. It is definitely a protection against hurt & fears. When I finally reached a slimmer size I was open to a relationship where I had 5 cherished months with my love. It was not to be long lasting, as his depression told hold of his mind and the resulted in the finality of his life. I need help in healing and releasing. It's been almost 2 years since he passed and yes I still laugh and am not entirely miserable (we had a great love), but I've had enough of this grief and feeding my void.
I hope you can help me.
Kind regards,
Laurell
Taya Wrote: As I explained weight can be tricky. I usually suggest a course of One-on-One balances to work through it, as there can be so many underlying issues maintaining ideal weight. You were kind of in an emotional quandary though and I was happy to download all those emotions you specifically outlined - knowing that this alone could make life better in some form. You had so much emotion to release. But about your weight:
Laurell you were way out of balance! After downloading your emotions and doing some housekeeping on your physical body - (See notes) I was also able to find you have an inbuilt sabotage on "sharing". Sabotages are put in place by our subconscious mind as a measure of protecting itself from further hurt/trauma etc. Locking in the sabotage was a stress on feeling "vivacious". Your body also gave us an affirmation to correct that would really make a difference to your underlying issues. It was "It's ok for me to have deeper access when in a relationship." (Not your generic kind of affirmation - so I'm guessing you're not an average/generic kinda girl). You definitely use weight to form a protective layer around you - to buffet you from attention, unfortunately this was in action for both good and bad attention. I felt like I wanted to hide. Another affirmation that came up was "I Laurell, am 100% successful & prosperous now & always"- so I'm not sure if you have issues with your job/career too and if this somehow relates? The physical re-balancing I've done, coupled with sabotage correction, emotional release & the mini zap I've given your metabolism - may give you the results you're looking for. If not I'd be happy to work through a program of One-on-One's with you. I wish you good luck - but mostly I hope you find something new in life to be truly happy about; you really deserve it after all you've been through.
Dear Taya,
Oh Gosh I hope you can help with my dog "Shaggy". He's a rescue pup from the RSPCA. I've had him for 3months and he's 9months old. The problem is his skin - he has really bad eczema. I use the medicated shampoo on him and follow the vet's advice to the letter -which normally alleviates it, but lately he's tearing holes in himself!! Please can you help as I HATE leaving him at home when I go to work - could that be the problem?? Taya Wrote: The shampoo helps, but he's building up immunity to it - so it's not as effective. However, there are two things I think are causing major dramas, so I just have to ask "Have you changed his flea treatment to a different brand?" (Something’s changed there) and "Have you got a new boyfriend?” There's a sensitivity/allergy to the flea treatment which is making him itchy, and a boyfriend situation that is getting under his skin... I've done a balance on both - you should notice a difference in him within 48 hours, however if it was a monthly flea treatment, it may play up a bit until it's completely out of his system.
Anxious,
Nella x
Nella replied: Umm, haven't changed flea brands, but wait I have changed the dosage as he's bigger now. I can't believe this - My boyfriend Steve has started to stay over a few nights a week now - he used to just stay over on Friday or Saturday night - I'm surprised Shaggy isn't happy about it - I thought he loved Steve, after all - it was Steve who bought Shaggy for me!! Will let you know how it goes.
Dear Taya,
Can you help with my Migraines? They're getting worse as time goes on - I remember having headaches as a young woman, but in the last 5 years or so they've become more frequent and more painful than ever... I'd appreciate ANY help you can give...
- RJ QLD
(After establishing that 'RJ QLD' has had her symptoms thoroughly checked out by a medical practitioner) -
Taya Wrote - Thanks for answering my extra questions. The most significant information I found was that this all began after the birth of your first child. I've released on the emotions of "Fright" and "terror" Pretty strong emotions to be carrying around. I also picked up a suppression of chemical toxins around the birth so I'm going to go out on a limb and say you probably had an epidural? When your body's cycle re-established itself after that (in your case around 7months later) - your hormone's really set in a pattern of reaction from the resulting epidural. Epi's are renown for their side effects, but usually headaches only persist as a result for about 2-3years. It's been 7 years for you. Similar responses of "Fright & Terror" were experienced at ages 33 & 35 (even if they weren't really big drama's) which have made things worse. I've released on this for you, and have also done some work to stimulate elimination to help release leftover anesthesia still in your system. I have also suggested in your full report to consider on-going treatment/balances - otherwise, I would love to hear how you go...
RJ Replied - Yes, I did have an epidural - 2 in fact, as the first one failed. I never associated the migraines with this, as they didn't appear until well after the event, so 7 months could be right. I can't belive my Dr didn't pick it up! Thanks for what you've done.